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Touch causes our bodies to produce a hormone called oxytocin. Not only does touch stimulate production of oxytocin, but oxytocin promotes a desire to touch and be touched: it’s a feedback loop that can have wonderful results. Oxytocin makes us feel good about the person who causes the oxytocin to be released, and it causes a bonding between the two persons. Nursing a baby produces oxytocin in both mother and child, and this is a major part of what initially bonds the mother and her baby. Even thinking of someone we love can stimulate this hormone; when women in good marriages were asked to think about their husbands, the level of oxytocin in their blood rose quickly.

 At least two non-controlled studies have found increases in plasma oxytocin at orgasm – in both men and women.[5][6] Plasma oxytocin levels are notably increased around the time of self stimulated orgasm and are still higher than baseline when measured 5 minutes after self arousal.

The authors of one of these studies speculated that oxytocin’s effects on muscle contractibility may facilitate sperm and egg transport.

In a study that measured oxytocin serum levels in women before and after sexual stimulation the author suggests that oxytocin serves an important role in sexual arousal. This study found that genital tract stimulation resulted in increased oxytocin immediately after orgasm.

Another study that reports increases of oxytocin during sexual arousal states that it could be in response to nipple/areola, genital, and/or genital tract stimulation as confirmed in other mammals. Murphy et al. (1987), studying men, found that oxytocin levels were raised throughout sexual arousal and there was no acute increase at orgasm.

A more recent study of men found an increase in plasma oxytocin immediately after orgasm, but only in a portion of their sample that did not reach statistical significance. The authors noted that these changes "may simply reflect contractile properties on reproductive tissue.

It is also important to note that more studies have been done to examine sexual arousal in women compared to men. Women experience longer orgasms compared to men and have a more complex reproductive endocrine system with clearly identified cycles such as, menstruation, lactation, menopause, and pregnancy.[11] This allows more opportunities to measure and examine the hormones related to sexual arousal.

Oxytocin evokes feelings of contentment, reductions in anxiety, and feelings of calmness and security around a mate.[12] In order to reach full orgasm[citation needed], it is necessary that brain regions associated with behavioral control, fear and anxiety are deactivated; which allows individuals to let go of fear and anxiety during sexual arousal. Many studies have already shown a correlation of oxytocin with social bonding, increases in trust, and decreases in fear. One study confirmed that there was a positive correlation between oxytocin plasma levels and an anxiety scale measuring the adult romantic attachment.[13] This suggests that oxytocin may be important for the inhibition of brain regions that are associated with behavioral control, fear, and anxiety, thus allowing orgasm to occur.

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Erotic massage or sensuous massage is the use of massage techniques to achieve or enhance sexual arousal. Massages have been used for medical purposes for a very long time. Its use for erotic purposes also has a long history. Today it is used by some couples on occasions as part of lovemaking, either as foreplay or as the final sex act. Erotic massages typically feature massages in erogenous zones of the body to increase sexual arousal.

Erotic massage may be utilized as a sex therapy, that is, as a means of stimulating the libido, or increasing the ability of a person to respond positively to sensual stimulus. In some cases, erotic massage can be a form of foreplay without sexual gratification, intended to heighten the sensitivity of an individual prior to another engagement where sexual arousal and fulfillment is intended. In other cases, erotic massage may be used professionally to help men address issues of premature ejaculation. Methods employed may teach the recipient to relax the musculature of his pelvis and thus prolong arousal and increase pleasure

Massages which are sometimes described as erotic massages are in fact sexual massages. These may be provided by establishments which call themselves massage parlors, but in fact provide sex services. In such cases, it typically takes the form of a massage whose purpose is the achievement of an orgasm, through masturbation, oral sex, or sexual intercourse.

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The combination of scent and touch is extremely effective in opening up intimacy between two people. That’s basically how we communicate love in an effective way, a way that doesn’t involve having to discuss the subject a great deal. It also works wonderfully on a basic physical level. There are a lot of nerve endings that follow along the path of the spine. As you massage, your touch brings the blood to the surface, you speed the absorption of the oils into the skin, and you also bring up the level of oxytocin, the hormone needed in high levels for the process of sexual arousal.

Massage is an especially good thing for men to focus on. Women often need the kind of attention it gives them o feel comfortable with proceeding on to more intimate activities. The nurturing, caring-for aspect of romance is extremely important between two people. You will have more interesting and intense erotic experiences if you’re involved on all levels with each other. And touch and scent are the best ways of really opening some of those deeper levels.

A backrub is something that everyone can relate to positively and that’s a good place to start. Using oils will make it quite a different, and far more exciting, experience.

Begin the massage with a small amount of your chosen aromatherapy oil, just a teaspoon or so. Rub the oil in the palms of your hands to warm it up before it touches your partner’s skin. Cold oil poured on a back will quickly produce about twice as much tension as was there before you started!

There are certain basic message techniques designed to relieve tension, that are very effective. Tension tends to accumulate in the neck, shoulders and upper back in women, and in the lower back and buttocks in men. The really important thing is not how you do the massage. The idea is not to become an expert masseuse or masseur. This is a seduction ritual! Be creative and playful.

The Welcoming Press: With your lover lying face down, straddle him or her or kneel at their side. Gently press down on your partner’s shoulders, and on either side of the spine. Do not press directly on the spin at any time during the massage. This stroke gives your partner a few moments to get used to the feeling of your hands on their skin.

The Back Warmer: Now begin to warm your lover’s back. With a flat hand, fingers together, palm in contact with the skin, move the hands in parallel lines up either side of the spine, then out and across the shoulders, and down the sides of the torso.

Kneading: Working as deeply as is comfortable for your partner, use your fingers to knead the muscles of the back, starting with the neck and shoulders and working your way down. Go slowly and use additional oil as necessary.
Raking: Spread your fingers and, keeping them somewhat stiff, rake them down the back from shoulders to buttocks. This releases deep, underlying tissue tensions.

Lower Back: The lower back and sacrum (the downward-pointing triangle located between the buttocks at the end of the spine) can become congested and tender, especially in premenstrual women. Lightly massage this area with small, circular strokes on buttocks, hips and upper thighs. With a man, use lower back spirals. Starting at the top of the crack between the buttocks use your thumbs to make small spirals upwards along either side of the tailbone to the top of the sacrum, then press your thumbs along the top of the hips and move them out, across and down the side of the body to the floor. Repeat several times.

Buttocks: Try "Thumbs over the Mountain." Starting at the bottom, press your thumbs firmly into the flesh of the buttocks and follow the curve up, around, and down the side of the hips. This can be a tender and sensitive area, so use only as much pressure as your lover can comfortably tolerate. Return to the first position and move your thumbs apart slightly to describe a second curved line that is parallel to and outside the first, continuing until you have no curve left to follow. Repeat several times.

Thighs: Once you get to your lover’s thighs, you may find yourself getting distracted and decide to shift your focus to other kinds of touching. Or you may want to try out some massage strokes of your own design. Or you can ask your partner to turn over and continue the massage with a few more strokes to the front of the body.

Shoulder and Chest Presses: Kneeling behind your partner, as he or she is lying face up, press down on the shoulders and hold. Ask your partner to take a deep, releasing breath, and let the essential oils work their magic as you increase the pressure of your hands slightly. At the end of the exhalation, release. Slide your hands up and over your lover’s collar bone and press very gently. Have them take a deep breath as you hold, then release. Now move your hands to the center of the chest, (between a woman’s breasts) and, laying one hand on top of the other, press very gently. Have your partner take a deep breath and release.

Sexual Energy Release Points, Neck and Ears: Encourage your lover to breathe in a deep and relaxing manner as you gently massage their neck, making small circles over the release points on the upper neck and about halfway up the ears. If the massage is a prelude to lovemaking, now is a really good time to let the kissing begin. Remember, too, that a woman’s breasts are highly charged with erotic energy and can create a dramatic arousal response when massaged or caressed.

Improvise! Well, you’re on your own from here. Relax, improvise and be creative, you’ll do just fine!

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Being authentic in your sexual relationships

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Women are like Geiger counters. Because they are driven by their emotions and feelings, they are in tune and in touch with  the same in others - whether you are happy or sad, joyful or mad, they will know, so don’t try to fool yourself here.

The great news is as you become truly authentic with your own inner emotions, feelings, and sensations, the more attractive you become in the eyes of your beloved (and others as well!)  

The key then is to simply raise your awareness of your own inner process. Very important point: This is not about being logical – it’s about being aware. The less you can step away from “thinking” and just simply “tune in” to your feelings and just allow them to be the way they are, them more you can free up and access your true inner power.  

Now I’m not talking about being a wimpy helpless little boy here (women are actually repelled by that), but really being accountable for what is going on inside of you. And the even better news is that It’s not very difficult to achieve once you know how to access and be with your feelings. My audio program “Irresistible Presence” is one very effective way to help you get in touch with your feelings and help you to dissolve them.

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In order to create great sensual desire in your partner, you need to learn how to touch. Understanding and mastering the fine subtleties of where, when, and how to touch her, creates confidence in her that you know what you are doing, and also that she can trust you for the upcoming “next steps” you have your intentions on. To her, this is a super big turn on.

The thing I find most satisfying while lovingly touching a woman, is that not only is she receiving the pleasure of touch, but you also get to feel every inch of her soft, smooth, skin. Feeling your way over her beautiful and delicate curves and other erotically intimate territories is as arousing to you, the giver, as is to her the receiver.

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When done consciously and caringly, touch has the power to unfold into areas of sensual ecstasy you may never have thought possible. Limited only by your imaginations and openness, a willing, loving couple can reach incredible heights of sensual and sexual pleasure.  

If asked what I think is the primary ingredient for ultimate sensual fireworks to take place, I’d say it’s your ability of being in tune with yourself, and in tune with your woman. 

Being in tune with your lover is the primary ingredient in order for fireworks of passion to take place. The more you allow yourself to become Present with her, the more she will open her heart to trust you, and in turn, the more she will want to receive you. 

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What Women Want from a Man

The best way to gain the attraction of seduction from a woman is to understand first what women most look for in a man and what turns them on. Over a thousand women were surveyed to find this out, and below I have listed the main traits women want from a man:

1.    Women want you to be confident. It’s one of the number one qualities women look for in a man. Be sure of yourself. Don’t apologize for everything. Don’t be overly sensitive or wimpy. Mostly, be yourself.

2.    Women really love a man with a good sense of humor. Using humor intelligently and at the right moments is super effective in making you attractive to them. Now I said intelligently, not stupidly. If your humor gets too “weird” it can be a turn off, especially if it is coming from insecurity. Using rule #1, confidence, and rule #2, humor, together is a winning combination. Making her laugh lets her know that you are fun to be with and don’t take life too seriously.

3.    Make her feel special and wanted. Do gentlemanly things for her like open the car door, carry her bag, buy her flowers. If it’s cold out, offer her your coat, if she needs protection, put your arm around her. Women really like to know that a man will take care of her and these things show her that. But don’t overdo it.

4.    Be fun, adventurous and romantic. Show her a great time by coming up with playful ideas. Take her on an adventure, give her a sensual massage, treat her to a candelit bath complete with wine and chocolate, go for a balloon ride (make sure she’s not scared of heights!) or anything that is new and exciting. This will show that you like a good time, and she will wonder how adventurous you will be in the sack!

5.    Women want a man who can be present and listen to them. They need to be heard. This I find is one of the biggest keys to opening a women’s heart and trust. It can also lead to great passion. Remember earlier I mentioned women being highly emotional creatures? Well, as a man, if you can learn how to really be available to her when she needs to vent or sound off about something (even if it’s about you), she will open up to you more and more.

The trick is to not take any of it personally. Real listening requires that   you suspend your thinking about what you are going to say and become deeply in tune and engaged with what she is talking about. Focus on her and her needs. Put away your own fears and worries and give her the support she needs in the moment. Shut off your busy mind just for a few moments and just listen. Don’t Judge, don’t try to fix her, just be available and allow. Do it because you really care.

To be able to do this really shows your strength as a man, and this is a HUGE turn on for her. Real listening with real intimacy is rare and what women crave. It will build trust and safety in her world, and allow her to open up to you in the most desirable ways.

Above all, be real, honest and authentic. Don’t try to much to please her but just enjoy her as an addition to your life. Enjoy your life first, include her in on it. Live life to the fullest and you will have no shortage of women and passionate times together.

Women like an attentive man and as she feels more and more safe with you, she will allow you to explore much more in physical and sexual ways.

So, this is a short list of some of the things that can really make a difference in your attractiveness to women. Learning to develop each and every one of these skills will not only lead to you becoming more attractive, but will also lead to a more personally satisfying life.

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The Fine Art of Attraction and Seduction

The excitement of seduction is one of the biggest pleasures in life we can have. When another person wants you sexually, and you want them, it goes without saying that it is a huge turn on for both. 

Seduction is an art form and is all about attraction. Using the qualities we already have and further developing the qualities we don’t have are key ingredients which contribute the most to our seduction success.

Below I have outlined key ingredients which will help you.

Women, Connection, and Trust

There is nothing more a typical woman wants than connection. It must be there first before any other activity takes place. It’s how they find out whether they can trust you with their bodies and spirit. When she feels it from you, your chances are more likely that your intimacy together will go far and end up being physical. And when you do it right, it can result in passionate fireworks.

Women are highly emotional creatures. There is not doubt about that. And that’s a good thing! No, actually, it’s a great thing! It’s where all the juice, passion, and aliveness we men want so much comes from.

On the other hand, as men, we want to control and maintain our worlds as much as possible, and this includes our emotions. And, this is one of the things that women really want from us. It helps them to maintain a sense of equilibrium of safety and security in their free roaming emotional worlds. It allows them to let go and be wild.

This combination of wild free flowing emotion and controlled steady attitude can make for very strong attraction.

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